• peoplebeproblems
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    6 days ago

    The number of times I’ve been told “you’re allowed to have feelings, but maybe express those feelings in another place” is too damn high.

    Mostly by my ex wife.

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      6 days ago

      Sir, I am sorry we can’t sell you a shamrock shake…this is a Wendy’s.

      Sobs uncontrollably.

      I know it wasn’t anything like this, but for some reason this is one of the scenarios I imagined.

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        6 days ago

        See, that’s what I would classify as maybe an emotional response that doesnt match the situation normally.

        If someone did do that, clearly they are going through shit a lot worse than shamrock shakes not being Wendy’s things. And I probably still wouldn’t tell them to find another place to cry.

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        6 days ago

        From my experience, this would evoke an unusually extreme rage response.

        Source: worked at a DQ for multiple years.

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          5 days ago

          Wait. DQ doesn’t have a shamrock shake either?! rages uncontrollably

          As an aside, i got stuck behind a Karen in the drive-through the other day. I felt their pain.

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      6 days ago

      If you keep crying after sex on the hunny moon you might want to rethink your relationship.