The real question is, how do you raise your kids so they don’t turn into the next Pete Buttigieg?
imagine getting owned by your kid’s fundamental questions about the physical world and society, like damn should have read some books dummy
skill issue
Wearily explaining, again, to a three year old that while the regimentation of time is an artifact of the development of the capitalist mode of production and the requirements of wage labor it’s still naptime and they still have to lay down
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I’m not shy at home about my political beliefs, I just find it much more useful to work with my kid on building a strong relationship than to browbeat her with the difference between labor and socially productive labor if she’s taking too long to get out of bed, say.
I burned out on organizing a long time ago too but the same principles that got any org I was involved with any wins seem to work pretty well at home too. Maybe I effortpost about it sometime.
I would read that effort post
It might take a little bit but I’ll try and make something coherent this week. If not something coherent then at least the nucleus of something useful.
please do
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Guidance is political
everything is politics
There’re different levels. Sure, maybe eating a potato chip is political, but it’s not the same level of political as telling your child how to conduct themselves.
eating a potato chip is political
Light Yagami is that you?
The way families are constructed is political. That I have effectively absolute authority over my children, however I choose to use that power, is absolutely political. Marginalized people live under the threat of having their children stolen from them because they lack the social capital to avoid getting ensnared in the family regulation system. That children have such limited rights to begin with is political. The power relations that exist between a parent and a child, and the structural context those relations exist in, is very much political.
The book Childism (Libgen link) broached the topic and is good reading.
On my reading list, thank you for the recommendation!
revisionism!
Bedtime struggle session when?
Go to bed because you’re tired and I know you don’t feel tired but remember when you didn’t realise you were hungry until you ate? it’s like that and also there’s not any fun stuff to do today anymore, I am also going to bed soon. The sooner you go to sleep the sooner it’ll be tomorrow and the sooner we can go out to play and have fun. Also I love our bedtimes where I get to read you your night-time story and I’ve really been looking forward to it, so can we please go to bed so I can read you the goodnight story?
Have you considered that I don’t wanna?
The rules-lawyering 4 year old in me has no genuine objections to this, guess it’s bedtime!
My mom gave me a bunch of communist medals she had gotten from her party and didn’t want anymore so I got to use them on my clothes. I was blinged out with lenin and che on my backpack. Worked pretty well.
I love going a layer deeper over and over until I’m like "because a star exploded and deposited heavy elements into a massive disk, which slowly formed into planets.
Why!?
Gravity and time select for stable patterns in the configuration of matter.
Why?
because unstable patterns break apart when met with random and wild phenomena. In a universe full of so much chaos, stable patterns are the only patterns that don’t break apart.
why?
because their cohesion is stronger than the forces trying to break them apart
why?
these patterns build upon themselves and create a collection of energy that works together that is more than chaos can muster
why?
because chaotic energy isn’t going to be cohesive and collect enough force to beat a stable pattern
why?
because if chaotic energy were so cohesive and structures, it would be a stable pattern and thus, not chaotic. Chaos, is by definition, an unstable pattern
why?
because it is an axiomatic definition of chaos
why?
because if we are to talk about this subject, we need definitions to work with
why?
because the amount of information being passed from me to you would be negligible unless we can use a common language
why?
because without common words, you wouldn’t be able to understand anything I’m trying to say
why?
because information needs to be encoded before it can transfer from my brain to yours
why?
because only I am able to see into my internal consciousness
why?
because consciousness, as it is conventionally understood, is a solo venture
why?
because a star exploded and deposited heavy elements into a massive disk, which slowly formed into planets.
this reads like something douglas adams would write. love it
sometimes I like to use “nobody knows, but some people have ideas”
This is really lovely thank you.
That last, eternal “why?” that’s where God goes. Now shut up, luv, i’m trying to watch the telly
This but unironically. I have exhausted so many kindergarteners. They end up saying they don’t want to know anyway and then I can hit them with
“Why?” 
And if they don’t like it then they shouldn’t have asked someone with AuDHD a question relating to one of their special interests. Stupid toddlers.except when it’s about physics or space stuff I don’t find that interesting so I don’t know it
