• girlthing@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    Closeted trans person here. The fact that so many of you have dared to live as yourselves, and to keep fighting in the face of increasing odds, is the reason I’m still here.

    Never underestimate just how much it means for the world that you exist, as you are.

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    I live in San Diego, and I have met maybe 3 or 4 trans folks in my day to day vibes. Nobody has been weird or inappropriate. Nobody has been anything other than human in the nearly 20 California years I’ve lived here. The fact that there are national effing laws aimed at an actual handful of folks is absolutely wild to me. I’m a ~40 year old cis white male, but you will always have me in the fight, as will anyone else just trying to live life. Stay excellent to one-another, love y’all 💗

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    “You are not worse for your association with the world, but it is better for its association with you.”

    • Brandon Sanderson (Oathbringer)
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    Thanks you. Always very heartening to know that there are at least some people on your side.

  • Eugene V. Debs' Ghost@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    TRANS RIGHTS ARE HUMAN RIGHTS

    THE WORLD IS BETTER WITH MY TRANS FRIENDS IT

    AND THE WORLD IS DIMMER WITHOUT THEM

    THE ONLY PEOPLE THE WORLD DOESN’T NEED ARE FASCISTS AND THEIR ENABLERS

    AND THIS IS A THREAT TO ANYONE WHO SAYS OTHERWISE

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    A friend of mine had a party for her official gender change last year and I was so happy for her!

    Just knowing she felt safe to come out in front of her family and friends and was able to start HRT and change her gender marker in official documents felt like a huge success. Not just for her, but for progressive politics in our country.

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    The fascists want you to disappear. Never give the fascists what they want.

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      They don’t. Deep down, no one wants to lose their scapegoat. They need an enemy. If trans people went away, fascists would have to find some other harmless, vulnerable, terribly frightening class of people to replace them. Or more likely, if they all disappeared, they would SUPPOSE THE EXISTENCE of trans people, and continue to demonize them.

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      Bigots that deserve bans. Technically we could see who downvoted, is one of the “problems” with Lemmy…

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    I’m all about positivity, but let’s be real: the World is not better or worse because of someone’s sexuality or gender identity, but is a lot worse for everyone because of the existence of bigoted people that have nothing better to do than meddle in other people’s lives.

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      So you acknowledge that bigots make things worse for everyone, but you blame the people they’re bigoted against for it? What are you trying to say here?

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        Where did I blame the oppressed people for the existence of bigotry?

        All I’m saying is, for all the qualities a person can have that makes the World better for everyone else, being a specific gender is one of the most irrelevant.

        Gender is a personal subject that only matters for you and the people you care about and care about you.

        Change “trans kids” for “cis kids” in the banner and you’ll understand what I’m talking about. The picture message is empty of meaning.

        To be clear, I have nothing against someone’s gender identity and I could have commented nothing at all. But this is a public forum, and I have an opinion on it, so there we are.

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      In a bigoted world, even the existence of the oppressed is a strike against bigotry.

      Survive, and the world is better for it.

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        I like that. It makes the fight to keep breathing another day something not strictly out of selfishness. Because you’re right, if everyone stopped fighting those fights we’d lose a lot of people, not just trans ppl, and yeah, the world would be solely populated by hard uncaring Viltrumites.

        Kindness must persevere.

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      Bro, i gave up, this is getting worst than Reddit in some matters. And yep, or you say you love them or they will downvote you to Mordor, there is no Middle ground on Middle ground