…I could have told you that 🤷

Source: https://x.com/BriannaWu/status/1984574165643403370

Not my usual kind of source (Xitter), but I want any centrists out there who ask trans people to “just get along” / compromise with actual hate groups that want them eradicated to know that it doesn’t work.

There is no such thing as a reasonable bigot, by definition.

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    16 hours ago

    As a soon-to-be physician that has sought training in trans healthcare, I do not see my role as gatekeeper, but the role of educator includes teaching about and monitoring for the risks and complications that can come from HRT. Estrogen and Testosterone are both powerful and potentially dangerous hormones and I do not want to see my trans patients dying from strokes or heart attacks that could have been prevented with more careful dosing of their HRT.

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      11 hours ago

      No one imagines they are the bad guy. But, if a patient asks for a drug and you deny it to them, you are being a gatekeeper. I imagine you are only doing this for “good reasons”, but you are still violating their bodily autonomy.

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        10 hours ago

        To be clear: I am not saying this about HRT specifically because, most of the time, HRT is safe when dosed appropriately.

        That being said, if I think a medication is going to be dangerous, harmful, or lethal to a patient and I prescribe it anyways, I am legally and morally liable for any harm that comes to them from that medication. I have had conversations with patients about weight loss drugs that they really want, but that would be extremely dangerous based on other comorbid conditions like heart problems or pancreas issues. If a patient asks me for something that I think is unsafe, I engage them in a discussion about why they want that medication, the risks and benefits of it, and possible alternatives that could be safer. If a patient is dead-set on getting a medication that is very likely to harm them, I’m not going to write that prescription because if the worst happened, their blood is on my hands.

        It is very uncommon that physicians refuse to prescribe something that a patient is asking for specifically. The much more common situation ends up being that the physician can write the prescription, but insurance won’t pay for it. There are obviously some physicians out there that refuse to prescribe things like birth control based on their personal beliefs, but they are obligated to refer that patient to a provider that will give them the prescription.

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          10 hours ago

          If a patient is dead-set on getting a medication that is very likely to harm them, I’m not going to write that prescription

          Then, you don’t value bodily autonomy as much as I do, and will deny it to some of your patients, gatekeeping – no matter what you “think” you are doing.

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            10 hours ago

            Does my ethical autonomy count for nothing? Am I really obligated under your worldview to harm my patients by acquiescing to their demands carte blanche?

            Even as a medical student, I have had patients die in my care from things I couldn’t do anything about. I had no way to save them because the medicine to fix the problem simply does not exist. As an ER tech, I have had multiple times where the physician running the code called the time of death while I was the one doing compressions on the patient. Most of those were children. I am already haunted by the patients I have lost through no malpractice, negligence, incompetence, or malice of my own. I refuse to intentionally add to my nightmares by doing something that I truly believe would harm my patient, even if it is what they are asking for.

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              9 hours ago

              In my worldview, the drugs would not have a gatekeeper. They would in available OTC. You should not have your “ethical autonomy” compromised at all. (And yes, it does count for nothing compared to bodily autonomy.)

              If your reason (for not providing the drugs) was only protecting yourself or others from State-backed violence, it could be justified. But, you claimed you would do it because you know better how to manage a patient’s body than themselves.