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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Terrible_Knowledge25 on 2023-09-04 22:23:25.
I (F18) and my sister (F21) mainly have a good relationship but recently she’s been asking non stop if i’m ever going to give her a neice or nephew.
In April I accidentally got pregnant even though I was on the pill and it unfortunately ended in a miscarriage in June and she knows this. However being pregnant kind of put me in a position where I don’t want kids because the pregnancy was hard.
Me and my boyfriend have both agreed we don’t want kids now or in the future, however my sister seems to disagree on this. She has a child of her own but won’t stop asking for a niece/nephew and keeps saying “I made you an auntie why can’t you make me one”.
One day she said this and I just lost it I turned to her and said “I don’t want children so stop asking because it’s annoying AND rude considering you know what i’ve just been through.”
She’s been upset at me ever since so AITA?
NTA. You can certainly apologize for losing it, but in the end it is your choice, not hers.