• abbotsbury@lemmy.world
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    7 months ago

    For many women, it is a regular occurance. Perhaps if you are frequently being assumed an asshole, maybe you are the problem?

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      7 months ago

      Or, perhaps both genders have assholes among them and we, as a society, have lost our ability to communicate with the opposite (or same) sex as caring, feeling human beings.

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        7 months ago

        I agree, I was just flipping back the dumb logic of “it isnt widespread, and if it is, it is your fault”

        We should communicate more, and the comic is a pretty good communication of why women are often (or rather, seem often) dodgy/cagey with men who are interested in them.

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      7 months ago

      That’s the thing though, I am not the problem, it’s some other asshole that can’t take rejection. He is the problem. Two different people.

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      7 months ago

      He’s obviously the problem. Classic victim blaming behavior. Incel in the making there.