• jpreston2005@lemmy.world
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    7 months ago

    Women are so funny with their designer clothes and handbags, “I’m just like my favorite singer/actress!” haha, sure you are, lil princess 😀

    Getting their nails done is hilarious, like aww, you gonna go change the way your hand operates so you can have your fun-time 3 inch long plastic shit gatherers? better show them off at the grocery store! 😜

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      7 months ago

      Spending money on activities and on community is vastly better than spending it on non essential things and I’ll die on this hill.

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        7 months ago

        You can’t act like there’s a substantial difference between the former and the later. It’s mostly a matter of opinion which things are trivialities and which things are important for happiness and community.

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          7 months ago

          People that research happiness say that experiences are more important than things and that community is also important for happiness. So there is a difference empirically.

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            7 months ago

            My point was more that there’s a lot of individual variation in terms of what things count for what category and even whether they’re enjoyable or not. You would have to pay me to go to a screamo concert. Other people would greatly enjoy the experience. Furthermore, at a certain point, you have to diversify the things you do. You can’t spend 100% of your free time strengthening your relationships, sometimes you gotta just buy some candy and eat it.

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      7 months ago

      My dude its a funny post on the internet. Unlike your comment, which was just hateful and vitriolic.

      Bet you’re fun at parties.