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minus-squarePenisWenisGenius@lemmynsfw.comlinkfedilinkarrow-up13arrow-down5·edit-26 months agoYou can’t date girls on bumble if you don’t have a job. And once you get a job, they’ll all think you’re a loser unless you have a fancy job. And once you have a fancy job, you’ll find there are more productive things to spend your spare time on.
minus-squareshastaxc@lemm.eelinkfedilinkarrow-up7·6 months agoSounds like a win to me, spending your time on more worthwhile things than online dating.
minus-squaresugar_in_your_tea@sh.itjust.workslinkfedilinkarrow-up7·6 months agoWhich is, like, pretty much anything. It’s a wide world out there, and online dating is a really sad corner of it.
minus-squareFlax@feddit.uklinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up4·6 months agoThe apps literally lose money if you get a date and start a relationship in them
minus-squareexocrinous@startrek.websitelinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up1·6 months agoWould you define a long distance relationship that’s lasted for multiple years with daily video chats as online dating?
minus-squaresugar_in_your_tea@sh.itjust.workslinkfedilinkarrow-up3·edit-26 months agoThat’s not really up to me, but no. I dated my wife for over a year online before we got married, and we’ve been together for a long time now. I’m more talking about dating apps and the relatively shallow hookups that come with that.
minus-squareIlovethebomb@lemm.eelinkfedilinkarrow-up3·6 months agoWhere are you living? I’m wondering if this is a regional thing or not.
You can’t date girls on bumble if you don’t have a job. And once you get a job, they’ll all think you’re a loser unless you have a fancy job. And once you have a fancy job, you’ll find there are more productive things to spend your spare time on.
Sounds like a win to me, spending your time on more worthwhile things than online dating.
Which is, like, pretty much anything. It’s a wide world out there, and online dating is a really sad corner of it.
The apps literally lose money if you get a date and start a relationship in them
Would you define a long distance relationship that’s lasted for multiple years with daily video chats as online dating?
That’s not really up to me, but no. I dated my wife for over a year online before we got married, and we’ve been together for a long time now.
I’m more talking about dating apps and the relatively shallow hookups that come with that.
Where are you living? I’m wondering if this is a regional thing or not.
yikes