Maybe I just miss Reddit is Fun, not Reddit, but I still have RiF installed (I just can’t delete it) and it still “works”. I can’t sign in or participate, but fuck I miss browsing everything. I’ve definitely replaced it with Kbin, but opening the RiF app just gives me sadness. Fuck spez.
I miss what it was. But it’s dead now, and there’s a corpse walking around in its skin, and when I’m away from here and among others who haven’t made the switch, I feel like the only person at the party who noticed there’s a slimy CEO in an ill-fitting snoo suit pretending to be our friend (sometimes).
Like any other dead thing, I can’t bring it back, so I have to move on.
I notice I’m more productive now. That’s nice.
In a way, yeah, but at this point in my life I’m getting used to it. Every few years, you gotta jump ship to the new thing.
Yeah. It’s a horrible temptation that I will continue to keep resisting.
Nah
Nah. Fuck that place.
I miss having information compiled in one site (Reddit). I just made an RSS to replace it.
after 12 years on the platform, no. the amount of change for the worse that’s taken place during that time is too much, and this most recent fuck up was the final straw. i was online before reddit and i’ll remain online after reddit
Nope
I miss some niche communities but I like the concentration of thoughtful responses here.
I miss what Reddit was in 2006. I don’t miss what it’s become since.
Then you probably will love https://tildes.net, at least it reminds me of that Reddit.
Edit: invite thread is still active as of this writing: https://old.reddit.com/r/tildes/comments/14zpjm5/official_invite_requests_round_24_leave_a_reply/
Thanks! I was curious about Tildes but didn’t have an invite the last time I checked it out.
That being said, I’m super happy with Kbin now that I’ve taken the time to sub to communities and follow folks - my feed here is now as active as Reddit’s ever was, and the content is lightyears better.
Kbin reminds me why I liked Reddit.
Did not meant to convince you to drop kbin in favor of tildes, as you can see, I’m on both. Though tildes does have that old reddit feel, the “subreddits” are still fixed (users can’t create own ones), they are trying to keep effort to be friendly and accepting (that’s why the invites, to prevent people joining massively and drastically changing the culture), it’s also run by one of old reddit admins (Deimos). The goal is to have “reddit” that isn’t a company seeking profits but a non-profit org living from donations.
But yeah, lemmy/kbin on the other hand has communities/magazines on topics that aren’t available on tildes.
Hey so this might come off combative but it’s not my goal, I really want info. Why is tildes not just Reddit redux? I could be very wrong here and would appreciate correction but as i understand it tildes is not part of the fediverse and control seems to land in the hands of the few, isn’t that what ended up driving most of us here to the fediverse? Maybe I’m wrong about all of this and I’d be thrilled if I was because the person who made RiF said they were moving to tildes and I loved RiF.
So as far as I know Tildes is owned by Spectria which is a Canadian non-for-profit corporation.
It apparently was created, because they didn’t like what was happening with reddit.
I don’t know how easy/hard it is to change it to for profit though.
@takeda If it’s owned by a non-profit, then I hope they’ll consider switching to a federated model eventually
From what I found tildes was created in 2018 (https://gitlab.com/tildes/tildes/), lemmy was created in 2019, kbin I think started in 2023.
Edit: I just noticed that tildes is under AGPL, and doesn’t look like they don’t require contributors to surrender their copyright, so it means the code will need to stay open source even if something would change with the company.
My online experience has been much better without reddit. kbin is awesome and I want nothing to do with reddit. Last week I deleted my 10 year old account and I even add “-reddit” to the end of my google searches now so nothing from them comes up in the results. The interesting thing I’m noticing is that the longer I’m away from that toxic hellhole the better I feel. Thank goodness for kbin!
On a sidenote, I’m also fully aware that a company as aggressive and twisted as reddit will definitely have agents in here trying to manipulate the conversation to get people to come back. I ain’t never coming back. Reddit sucks. I see you. Quit your BS.
For me, Reddit died long before the whole ordeal of the API controversy. More and more traffic was due to bots, and lately I started to receive a lot of spam from porn bots there. There’s not a lot of incentive on part of Reddit to remove them, since bot activity is still activity they can present to investors.
Don’t get me wrong, not all bots are bad, but spambots are universally harmful.
There’s literally one or two niche communities I still poke in on for news, but I’ve stopped participating.
I don’t miss it because I keep using it. The communities I follow there are niche and they are completely dead on the Fediverse. I keep opening Kbin every other day just to find that my “new” feed still shows posts from 2 weeks ago without even scrolling.
Also, most of what I dislike from Reddit is still here.
Tons of people on the Fediverse craft their responses to fish upvotes, and circlejerking/echo-chambers are here too. Just last week I got a fresh breeze of downvotes and angry commenters because I expressed that I dislike Steam, on the PCgaming magazine, which is the same thing that would’ve happened on r/gaming, r/pcmasterrace or another similar toxic cesspool on Reddit.
This, I’m trying to be the change I want to see etc. on Kbin. But in order to fully recreate what I have on Reddit I’d have to recreate, moderate, and cough up content for like a dozen niche subs. Because of how my life is right now I don’t have the energy to do one. I haven’t noticed much of the toxicity, but any online space that revolves around gaming seems to turn into a toilet within a matter of days anyway, so it’s sadly unsurprising.
Even then, “being the change you want to see” is futile if the platform itself has tons of issues and doesn’t provide incentives for people of all kinds to join and use over other platforms.
It seems like only hardcore Redditors and hip techies pass the filter to discover the Fediverse and thrive on it, which makes certain communities outright impossible to grow. Case and point; the biggest solo RPG mag on the Fediverse has been running for over a year, and 98% of the ~40 posts have been made by a single dude, most of which have zero interactions. Why? Because the Fediverse’s demographic has no interest on the topic.
And yeah, gaming stuff always make the keyboard wizards rush out of their towers. 🧙♂️
any online space that revolves around gaming seems to turn into a toilet within a matter of days
This is the truth. There was a nice sub on Reddit about Android gaming which was pretty non-toxic but generally speaking gaming brings out the worst in people. And I still don’t know why
i’ve unsubbed everything except those niche sub for news and technical help, rarely goes there anymore but might help with the r/place protest
