• Ajen@sh.itjust.works
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    5 months ago

    Personal growth usually involves pain, but that’s not a good reason to avoid it. Sounds like OP missed out.

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      5 months ago

      attempting to date has only given me pain and misery, trying to court people who turned out to be shitty human beings didn’t make me “grow”, it just made me feel unwanted and worthless.

      I mean, if masochism’s your thing, who am I to judge?¯\_(ツ)_/¯