• Wild Bill
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    6 months ago

    That’s why I can’t imagine not* being friends with someone before entering a relationship with them. People who look for romance right off the bat are setting themselves up for failure.

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      6 months ago

      I think you a whole word there.

      Though I think you can have romance at the start and friendship together personally.

    • explodicle@sh.itjust.works
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      6 months ago

      For me at least, I’ve never started being attracted to a person more than a minute after I’ve first met them.