• secondaccountlemmy@lemmy.world
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    11 months ago

    He said something to the extent of… ok lets take a break and get something then she clarified. from us.

    Not defending Ross or anything, the guy was absolutely the worst. Just wanted to clarify the scene. Top of my head of the Ross things that make him the worst:

    This whole thing was ON their anniversary!

    Getting on with a student

    Making out with Charlie after she and Joey broke up

    Not letting Rachel go for her dream job in Paris

    • TheAndrewBrown@lemmy.world
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      11 months ago

      The problem is he didn’t stick around to talk out what “a break from us” means. He stormed out without saying anything when she said that. And it’s not really his fault, he says he assumed that meant a full breakup which isn’t unreasonable. But most people know that in reality when you’re in a big fight with your SO, sometimes you say things that you don’t mean the next day so you probably shouldn’t be making huge decisions that will affect the future of your relationship based on them. Assuming you want the relationship to continue which he obviously did.

      He’s not a bad person for doing what he did, he’s just an idiot for doing what he did when he wanted to still be with her. Even if it was a full breakup, that doesn’t mean he couldn’t win her back. Sleeping with someone else makes that much harder though.