🍹Early to RISA 🧉@sh.itjust.worksM to Greentext@sh.itjust.works · 3 days agoAnon sees happy peoplesh.itjust.worksimagemessage-square85fedilinkarrow-up1576arrow-down156
arrow-up1520arrow-down1imageAnon sees happy peoplesh.itjust.works🍹Early to RISA 🧉@sh.itjust.worksM to Greentext@sh.itjust.works · 3 days agomessage-square85fedilink
minus-squareValmond@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up2·1 day agoYes exactly. Especially things you cannot change, but I guess that’s the thing making it even worse.
minus-squaremedgremlinlinkfedilinkarrow-up2·1 day agoThe thing you can change is your outlook and interpretation regarding the immutable parts of yourself. Your attitude about something is almost always much more important than the thing itself when it comes to relationships.
minus-squareValmond@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up1arrow-down1·1 day agoYes, and in reverse, make some tiny thing a huge problem is also possible :-)
Yes exactly.
Especially things you cannot change, but I guess that’s the thing making it even worse.
The thing you can change is your outlook and interpretation regarding the immutable parts of yourself. Your attitude about something is almost always much more important than the thing itself when it comes to relationships.
Yes, and in reverse, make some tiny thing a huge problem is also possible :-)