I sometimes think about how other people have less happy relationships than mine, and that makes me sad for them

  • GiveOver@feddit.uk
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    14 hours ago

    Did they not love you before you got married? Only thing that changed for me was -£10k

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      8 hours ago

      I always find it weird how some people spend thousands just to announce “our relationship is the same, but now we told the government”

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        7 hours ago

        Think of it more as “this is the best excuse we are ever gonna have to throw a big party where we get to decide the guests, the food, etc etc”

        Though I do think too many people spend a lot of money because they feel like they “are supposed to (have a big wedding)” and not because they actually want to

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          7 hours ago

          Hahaha, I’ve never needed an excuse! Mayhaps :p

          F what you’re “supposed to”, really. And I’ll freely tell any family member or friend that. Rudely if I need to. I’ve heard some of the dumbest stuff come from people just because of weird traditions.