Got it off reddit and dont want to find the original because im on mobile. Im a lib

  • HornyOnMain@hexbear.net
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    1 year ago

    Theory: cishet white boomers are so vanilla and puritanical about sex because their D/S dynamic is inflicted upon the entirety of society with no safeword; they don’t need to play pretend in latex suits and stuff behind closed doors. Their entire lives are constructed around ensuring the complete dominance of one person over the other in marriage in a way far more totalising than any sex-slave fetish thing could ever be.

    • frankfurt_schoolgirl [she/her]@hexbear.net
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      1 year ago

      I agree with this take. Every time boomers talk about marriage it’s like I’m listening to some extremely submissive bottom tell me their crazy fantasy. How do you not get embarrassed by being so overly sexual in public?

      I’m sure Dworkin or Foucault have some deep analysis of the historical reactionary mindset, but you can’t convince me they’re not also getting off.