• AstridWipenaugh@lemmy.world
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    1 year ago

    That last part happened to my cousin. He dated a guy for a few years and everyone liked him a lot. After they got married, he let all the crazy out and became mentally and physically abusive. It apparently started pretty much immediately after marriage, but it took several years before anyone found out what was happening.

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      1 year ago

      That’s pretty standard for any abusive relationship. The abuser usually waits until they feel like their partner can’t escape before they become awful.