• krashmo@lemmy.world
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    1 year ago

    Sure, but how are you supposed to find out if the person you’re interested in likes what you like without opening yourself up to what some would view as significant backlash? I’m married so this is not a request for advice but rather a thought experiment for me. This just seems like telling someone who’s depressed to stop being sad. Like yeah, that’s the idea, but practically speaking how does that work?

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      1 year ago

      You might get backlash, but if they’re an asshole about it, you leave.

      So on date number whatever when you’re getting naked, you kiss their toes, ask if they’re ok with that. Maybe later that night, maybe another night, you check with them and see if they’re open to more—foot fucking? I don’t know exactly what’s next with this fetish.

      But it’s basically the same as opening up about any fetish. And yeah there’s vulnerability, but ya just gotta take that step or else you’ll end up just jerking off alone to Skyrim VR feet for the rest of your life