• density@kbin.social
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    11 months ago

    I agree the other comment is a bit crass and small minded. It sounds like a very painful situation.

    But… for ten (10) years your wife is terrorized by a website on a specific day…? Sounds like it could have been mitigated no?

    • don’t go on facebook
    • don’t go to work (if your job intrinsically involves using facebook or you just can’t resist it)
    • have someone triage/screen your facebook on this specific day — delete/hide the post

    my condolences to your wife for the loss of her father.

    • oneiros@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      11 months ago

      Yes, you get it. Speaking as a software engineer, users need to adapt their behavior to accommodate the product, not the other way around.

      It’s impossible to account for every fanciful scenario or ethical edge case - remember, software exists in a vacuum of pure logic. So if a braindead algorithm dredges up a painful memory of yours every year and tactlessly features it alongside a lighthearted quip from the marketing team, it’s nobody’s fault.

      Well, it’s your fault for not avoiding Facebook on that day. What I mean is, it’s not my fault and it’s not Facebook’s fault, whatever that means. It’s just the computer doing its thing.

      Just kidding!!! I am using sarcasm to express my contempt for this mentality! It is correct to criticize tech companies for catastrophic UX failures! I believe it is in very poor taste to offer workarounds in reply to an anecdote like this!