• captainlezbian@lemmy.world
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    1 year ago

    Maybe as a woman she shouldn’t get a say in how manly men are. Neither do I. And frankly I think every man should get to decide for himself.

    If a man wants to be feminine fuckin let him. If he wants to be masculine fuckin let him. So long as he isn’t being a dick about it it’s none of anyone else’s business

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      1 year ago

      But the right has no policy to run on so it needs something to drum up fear about. Insecure men eat up the alpha male, testosterone, feminine man bullshit.

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        1 year ago

        Yeah, and so I’m going to say very loudly as a woman, I’m friends with feminine guys, masculine guys, guys who are neither, and guys who are both. But what I’m not friends with is guys who can’t just fucking be themselves. We aren’t trying to feminize you unless you want help being more feminine, in which case yeah I’ll gladly give some eyeliner tips.

        Masculine men with confidence and self esteem don’t need other men to be masculine for them. Ok some do, but that’s because that’s their type.

        And if you’re still struggling with accepting how other men are, try therapy. It may help with whatever is causing you to push your expectations on strangers

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      1 year ago

      That’s asking a lot from a group of people seething over the idea that somewhere out there is a person they’ll never meet with an opinion about their own genitals that isn’t far-right approved.