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We are working on bringing the wiki and other resources over to lemmy. The rules are posted, but we are relaxing some of them for now as we want you to jump in and post whatever is on your mind!
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I’m glad to be here! I started getting hot flashes a few weeks ago. I thought I was going to get through peri without experiencing them. No such luck.
Before peri, do you remember thinking…“what’s the big deal about hot flashes?” Like so what, you get hot for a few minutes, how bad could that be?? Some poor folk get them every hour and lasting for 10 mins or more!
I don’t get hot flashes. I get a whole hot morning, every morning. It’s Winter here and I generally walk my cat around 10am. I rarely wear a jumper/jacket. We go for our second walk in the afternoon (bengal life) and I’m rugged up appropriately. It’s wild.
Oh yeah, absolutely. A few weeks ago I was at a conference, standing in a line with my colleagues, dripping with sweat and feeling just way too hot. It lasted so long. T’was not fun.
That sounds awful. I am so sorry, don’t think I have this yet but I’m sure I will find out. How long into peri before you started getting this out of curiousity?
I actually have no real way to gauge how long I’ve been in peri! I have a mirena so I stopped getting my period a really long time ago. It’s only going by other symptoms that I figured out I was in peri. I’m 49, and I think I’ve been in peri for at least a year.
Yup symptoms…that’s all you can go by. Even then if you keep the mirena, you won’t really know if you’ve reached post-meno either because symptoms can carry on after that too.
There’s really no rhyme or reason with hot flashes. Mine didn’t start until I became post-meno!
I’ll just have to wait and see I guess. Maybe I will move back to Canada if it gets too much. Lol. Moved away to leave the cold winters. 🥶
You asked for it! :D
I. Am. Miserable. It’s been a few weeks of physical and mental hell. Hormone fluctuations still show up out of nowhere, 2.5 years into menopause. They mess with my digestion, which messes with my antidepressant, which triggers an HSV2 flare-up… my poor husband. He’s stuck with a bloated, exhausted, wiry-haired, whiny mess of a wife. I’m clinging by my fingertips because I promised him I would.
I hear ya…digestion, gut issues (should I risk a cup of coffee today?), monitoring foods, figuring out when to take what medication and then how to counteract the side effects of that. Some days it feels like trying to juggle balls, when I can barely hold onto one. Keep hanging on @getitoffmychestpleas…
Heck yeah!!
I’m doing okay (fingers crossed and hoping I’m not jinxing myself lol) but this is the little calm before the cosmically horrific emotional storm that usually drops on me at various times. I have been freezing the last few days and that’s so unlike me. Usually I’m randomly burning up and I need to sit in front of the fan for a bit to get back to warm. This new freezing feeling is not welcome. I want happy medium! The brain fog has been awful this past week though. I try not to be hard on myself over it and I’m learning to show myself grace. But when you really need to pluck something from your memory concerning a task you were going to do, and the only thing that comes up is fog and a “hello, this is brain fog here to sabotage your memory retrieval. Have a random thought about your age right now!” It’s rough lol.
It’s so important not to be hard on ourselves, we are our worst critics in everything. Trying to pluck something from memory is always worse when there’s someone standing there, waiting for you to say it. Then I get frustrated, not about finding the words, but about what they might think.
What you said is so true! I have been trying to teach myself not to be hard on myself. The world will be hard on me at times; I need to be caring and guiding to myself. That tends to help. I really understand and relate to the feeling of frustration because someone is waiting on what we’re supposed to remember. When I’m in that position, I end up saying I can’t remember pretty quickly while my inner thoughts are about everything except the Thing I’m trying to remember lol.
Content warning: creepy crawlies
I had an Incident. Saturday afternoon I went for a hike with two of my friends. One of them insisted I let her spray me with tick repellent. After I got home I sat around for a couple of hours, ate dinner, relaxed, then discovered I had a tick attached to my calf in spite of the spray. I should have showered and taken off my hiking clothes as soon as I got home. I found another adult tick, unattached, while showering and then found a couple of pinpoint sized ones over the course of the next few hours because I sure as hell wasn’t sleeping. Besides I had to get the clothes in the dryer. But for some reason even though I’ve found ticks on me before, this one set off a full-body whole-life panic attack that is still ongoing. I’m crying at everything. Everyone is irritating me. And I just feel itchy and crawly all the time. I’ve examined crevices of my body I haven’t looked at in years. I shaved places I haven’t shaved in years. I’ve made my husband do several full body exams…he didn’t seem to mind somehow.
Apologies if I’ve now contaminated you with the creepies.
I’m glad you got them all…little buggers. Crying jags are a weird thing, one little issue could cause a few tears, and then it’s open flood gates the rest of the day. I don’t know if it’s some weird phenomenon or if there’s some scientific evidence for it, but once I start crying, the tears easily come hours later (for no reason). Even if I’m laughing!
I was panicking when I couldn’t find this on reddit but luckily did find my way here. Thank you for keeping us together! Y’all are the only folks who get me. <3 What’s (somewhat) new for me is jaw pain and tension. It is driving me crazy. It has periodically been an issue for over a year, along with other joint pain and tension issues, but for over a month now, every single day, my jaw is tense as f*ck. It will not relax. I now this is a peri symptom for many people, and I’m hoping when my meno doc increases my HRT dose it will help, but I am losing my mind a little right now. Anyone else suffer with this one? Any tips?
How do we follow a board here…? 😬 I’m looking for the right thing to click and not guess I’m just not finding it…
Anyone have other helpful tips for using this platform while we are at it? I’m all eyes 👀 and ready to learn.
If you’re accessing the website through your browser, there should be a large green “subscribe” button. If you’re using a mobile web browser, tap the Sidebar[+] button just under the community name, then click the subscribe button.
(Love that you’re willing to learn!)
Thank you!
