When I opened this site 5 days ago, I could not have guessed that I would post
such a post. But here we are. As you know, we did a poll on this topic here
[https://lemmynsfw.com/post/26029]. Around 40% of people said to block, the rest
said to not to. In such cases, we wanted to make the poll, even though it
doesn’t matter. Right now, I’m still currently agreeing with @bobbiguy2122
[https://lemmynsfw.com/u/bobbiguy2122] here
[https://lemmynsfw.com/comment/82152]. We are going to let community moderators
handle the situation in within limits. So it’s going to be users choice to
subscribe to that community or creating new one with his own rules. #### Why not
completely block it If we are going to split, there is so many fractions as
well. As someone who only likes women and plain porn, I don’t want to ban
tentacle, futanari or gay stuff. Because even though they are kinky, they are
also a pleasure. Being attracted to petite teens is just like these pleasures,
and the vast majority actually like it. I think we should not ban this pleasure
just because it is in a dangerous area. #### As a result First of all we will
explicitly ban IRL loli images. Although we will allow non-IRL content under
moderator control, tho we will control childish content independently of
moderators too. We will make this distinction according to images that look and
act like children. #### Defederation I see a lot of people are worried about
this situation. But I don’t care. Because as you can see, beehaw, one of the
largest instances, blocked the other 2 largest instances. This situation is
inevitable in NSFW only instances like us. As a result, you must have one main
account, where you can access all instances, and one NSFW account, where you can
only access NSFW content. For example, I don’t plan to block any instances on
this instance, except in extreme cases.
Lets not beat around the bush here, lots of people like to look at boobs and dicks.
Lemmynsfw was looking like a good place to go, but reading the “Loli” announcement thread where they equate drawn child porn to petite women, its clear the owner is not the right person to be hosting a NSFW instance for the majority of people.
Is there anywhere else that people can recommend?
There is undoubtably a need for such an instance. Can we discuss this like adults?
You don’t have to join an instance to access their content, though. And if something pops up in your timeline if you select “All”, you can still block the whole community without losing access to others hosted on that server.
The point of the thread though is to point out that the instance likely isn’t one that most people looking for a reddit NSFW alternative is one that they want to associate with, and to ask if there are any other alternatives yet
…and if the content there is loli, why would I want to go there?
And yes, using an instance is associating with it.
I don’t care if people want to jerk off to drawn pictures of kids.
I’m pointing out that most people don’t, so its not a suitable instance for the majority of people, and asking if there are any alternatives yet.
You’re absolutely correct. By using said instance you’re helping to build their community (to whatever degree) and by extension supporting the problematic part of the instance.
The moment you have your instance defederate from another one, you decide for all your users, instead of letting them decide for themselves. Why would you want to do that? We have just seen what this does, when beehaw defederated from world and sh.itjust.works. No thanks to that. I, as an adult, can think for myself.
I honestly can’t tell you anything you couldn’t read up in the quoted original post of this thread. I read about it a few minutes ago, so you’re as well-informed about it as me.
Yeah that’s what I meant - I didn’t see a single comment on the announcement post - that agreed with the mod. They are all saying it’s a stupid decision, many are threatening to report any clearly underage content - whether it’s drawn or not.
The mod might have made the decision, but the users don’t agree with it at all.
I don’t care about all that, or this issue here in general. I’m only replying here, because I personally, as a fediverse user, want to be able to decide myself what I do and don’t want to see. If I have the means to curate the content visible to me, which I do, there’s no need to have someone think and act for me. See where I’m coming from?
I dont want to associate with that instance because its making announcements that its decided to allow nude depictions of underage children.
I said its a dumb move to allow porn that features depictions of children. Being banned doesnt bother me, I only found out when I went to look to see if I could delete my account
It does not matter if a community has 2 people or 150 people, whoever is a member of the community at the time their voice matters. And they can revisit that as the community continues to grow.
You can block whole communities as user. Personally, I’m not interested in Loli, but their users voted to allow it.
Yes, that isnt an issue.
The issue is for those looking for a NSFW instance that dont want to associate with child porn
You don’t have to join an instance to access their content, though. And if something pops up in your timeline if you select “All”, you can still block the whole community without losing access to others hosted on that server.
Yes, I am aware of this.
The point of the thread though is to point out that the instance likely isn’t one that most people looking for a reddit NSFW alternative is one that they want to associate with, and to ask if there are any other alternatives yet
You don’t associate with an instance by accessing content from it. You do by signing up there and accessing the fediverse as a whole on that account.
…and if the content there is loli, why would I want to go there?
And yes, using an instance is associating with it.
I don’t care if people want to jerk off to drawn pictures of kids.
I’m pointing out that most people don’t, so its not a suitable instance for the majority of people, and asking if there are any alternatives yet.
You’re absolutely correct. By using said instance you’re helping to build their community (to whatever degree) and by extension supporting the problematic part of the instance.
The moment you have your instance defederate from another one, you decide for all your users, instead of letting them decide for themselves. Why would you want to do that? We have just seen what this does, when beehaw defederated from world and sh.itjust.works. No thanks to that. I, as an adult, can think for myself.
Can you point out where I said to defederate?
It’s obvious you’re trying to troll me, so I’ll disengage. Have a good evening.
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How do you block a whole community?
In your profile, looks like this:
Ahh, see this is the moment I realize we’re all in a separate instances and all assuming our UIs look identical.
The more recent clarification post says they’re prohibiting drawn CP (https://lemmynsfw.com/post/29826)
They voted? How? How many people are even in that community so far? Seems like the kind of thing to revisit as it grows.
I don’t know, but they wrote so in the post the OP quoted.
Yeah - but not a single response to the post - agrees.
I honestly can’t tell you anything you couldn’t read up in the quoted original post of this thread. I read about it a few minutes ago, so you’re as well-informed about it as me.
Yeah that’s what I meant - I didn’t see a single comment on the announcement post - that agreed with the mod. They are all saying it’s a stupid decision, many are threatening to report any clearly underage content - whether it’s drawn or not.
The mod might have made the decision, but the users don’t agree with it at all.
I don’t care about all that, or this issue here in general. I’m only replying here, because I personally, as a fediverse user, want to be able to decide myself what I do and don’t want to see. If I have the means to curate the content visible to me, which I do, there’s no need to have someone think and act for me. See where I’m coming from?
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I can’t answer because I was banned for saying allowing loli was a bad move, lol
Ah so it isn’t so much that you don’t want to associate with it, it’s more that you got banned so can’t.
Did you say that you thought it was a ‘bad move’ or did you go all guns blazing and start shouting about child porn?
No, I was banned after this post was made.
I dont want to associate with that instance because its making announcements that its decided to allow nude depictions of underage children.
I said its a dumb move to allow porn that features depictions of children. Being banned doesnt bother me, I only found out when I went to look to see if I could delete my account
It does not matter if a community has 2 people or 150 people, whoever is a member of the community at the time their voice matters. And they can revisit that as the community continues to grow.