Does anyone feel like they’re missing social cues that neurotypical people understand without being taught? I’m missing out on career opportunities because of it. Does any type of guide/rulebook exist to effectively mask?
Step 1: Read How to make friends and influence people. Step 2: Cry, bc half the book is “listen and pay attention”
Hmm sounds intriguing. I guess there definitely must be a reason it’s so popular. add to cart
Step 1.1: Download free ebook (https://archive.org/details/howtowinfriendsinfluencepeople_202004/page/n6/mode/1up) (it’s so old that it’s public domain)
I’ve read somewhere that people who have ADHD are often also autistic. Is it possible that you have undiagnosed mild autism?
This is the one I’ve found most helpful, especially the last chapter:
http://www.afieldguidetoearthlings.com
I don’t know if it helped me mask better, but it made neurotypical behavior seem less confusing and more predictable.
The book “What Does Everybody Else Know That I Don’t?” may be what you’re looking for.
