Alrighty, ladies --admitedly, I don’t know how many of you there are, or how much traction this post will get but I’ll ask anyway.
What’s your preference in terms of vaginal dildo/penetration toys? What feels better and when? I’m curious about material, length, girth, use (suction cup on shower wall, on the floor, in bed by hand, your partner using it on you), vibrating (and vibration type), thrusting, remote controlled, etc…
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I am a lady and not really into dildos but on the occasions guys have used them with me, silicone was best, glass was terrifying and too hard. Have not personally tried any other material.
What are you planning on using them for? DP? Showing off? Size training for fisting? To feel full during oral? The latter is the best use I’ve encountered, you don’t really have to multitask just being filled does add to getting off that way.
Like the previous commenter, buzzing inside doesn’t feel great for me, is almost irritating.
Sorry I can’t be more helpful but at least a data point and some thoughts.
I am a lady and not really into dildos but on the occasions guys have used them with me, silicone was best, glass was terrifying and too hard. Have not personally tried any other material.
We’ve not tried glass for her. I’ve done (glass/stainless) anal/plugs for myself. My draw there has been that glass is significantly easier to clean and less likely to degrade over time.
Is it the hardness or the prospect of it “failing” during use that scares you most? i.e. if you knew it wouldn’t shatter or break, and you were in full control, knowing exactly how gently or rough to go, would glass still be ruled out?
What are you planning on using them for? DP? Showing off? Size training for fisting? To feel full during oral? The latter is the best use I’ve encountered, you don’t really have to multitask just being filled does add to getting off that way.
A little bit of all of the above? We both have voyeur (love to watch) and exhibitionist tendencies. Watching her get off on a big dildo turns me on. She enjoys watching me masturbate, too (plugs are in the mix for me).
But more to the point, we usually work towards her orgasming 2 or 3 times (not always: mood, time, and schedules don’t always line up). Oral, manual stimulation, intercourse, and toys all play into the mix. Again, not trying to pile everything at once but to have options to keep things entertaining. And, yes, sometimes simple IS better 😁
And you’ve been super helpful! Thank you for taking the time to chime in! ❤️
I think the fear of glass was a mental thing, but the material is also just too hard. If you are trying for one man DP, ask her but I like whatever is in the pussy to be bigger, smaller in ass so if you are hung, a smaller one.
Maybe TMI but one of my favorite DP experiences was riding two guys at once, got them to scootch together and it was surprisingly awesome, one of the best things I’ve ever felt so if she’d like to try that (and doesn’t have bad knees) a long suction cup one might work to make that possible. I don’t think it could be more awkward than it was with two guys, lol.
Anyway - very cool that y’all are so open, you can’t go wrong, try things, leave what you don’t like and keep what you do like.
DP with two guys!? SO hot!
I tend to just use a vibrator by myself, but with a partner it can be pretty good to use a dildo. I’d say I prefer the more classic silicone dildos, or ones with a big head that can really hit the g-spot. Vibrating or thrusting is just too overstimulating for me.
Thanks for taking the time! In other words, for “solo” play, vibrators are your main go-to. Clit stimulation only or mostly? How important is penetration stimulation when masturbating?
On the dildo side, I’m guessing that whether realistic or not, it doesn’t matter much? Other than it having the right shape/curvature to hit the right spots reliability. Is that a fair way to put it?
Solo I tend to stick with vibrators and sometimes a butt plug. I tend to enjoy edging for hours or days, so anything inside me more than my fingers tempts me into cumming.
Yeah, though I’d say the less realistic shapes tend to hit the spot better. Like the head should be bigger than the shaft
I use either a vibrator or dildo (the soft realistic kind feels best) it depends on what kind of stimulation I’m looking for. My go-to dildo is about 6" in length and 4" girth. For vibrators I prefer either a bullet vibe or a dual stim. The bullet vibe works best when I use it but the others also work as well when a partner uses them.