All this leaves me feeling torn between two emotions. I want to keep my husband safe and healthy. But I also want our old life back.
It’s her husband, what the hell happened to “in sickness and in health”, did she forget about that vow? Does marriage even mean anything to people anymore? Her “old life” is not going to come back anytime soon, he husband is immunocompromised. That’s never going to change. Support your life partner, as you promised to do so on the day you got married. Those vows are supposed to mean something, they’re not supposed to be empty words. You’re supposed to stick together and support each other through the good and the bad, in sickness and in health as I already said.
But my feelings as his spouse are valid too, says James C. Jackson, a neuropsychologist at Vanderbilt University and author of Clearing the Fog: From Surviving to Thriving with Long COVID, A Practical Guide.
Okay the rest of the article, which is the vast majority of it, is just promotion of this guy’s book and methods, the article is not worth reading, it’s extremely basic relationship advice such as compromising with your partner, and not to gaslight your partner about long COVID. Again, basic empathetic human behaviour.
In January, we flew halfway across the world to visit family in Dubai. At first, I thought that the stringent COVID precautions he was taking to protect himself on the airplane were over the top. In addition to wearing an N95 mask for 13 straight hours, he kept a personal air purifier at his seat at all times. But now I can see those actions for what they are. He was doing everything he could to make the trip work. In his way, he wanted to see me happy.
Stick to those last few sentences and ignore the rest. The guy is doing the best he can to try to make things work. This isn’t some malicious thing. Recognise that and continue to try to make things work together.
All in all, this is a clickbait article to advertise some phycologist’s book and methods, and the wife is not as bad as the introduction makes it seem. Don’t know how such blatant promotion is allowed on NPR though, isn’t that meant to be state funded media?
I thought that the stringent COVID precautions he was taking to protect himself on the airplane were over the top. In addition to wearing an N95 mask for 13 straight hours, he kept a personal air purifier at his seat at all times.
I’d be wearing a fucking full face respirator complete with two huge filters sticking out if I was immuno-compromised and you asked me to sit in a small metal tube with a couple hundred other people for 13 hours. If people don’t think I’m Bane, I haven’t gone far enough.
And the thing is, even if COVID magically goes away, the guy is still immunocompromised. Illnesses like the flu and common cold can still make him seriously ill. His life has permanently changed.
And then I tell people, with a shit eating grin, that the respirator is more comfortable than N95s because the weight is distributed across your head and the massive filter area and outflow valve don’t trap moisture.
It’s her husband, what the hell happened to “in sickness and in health”, did she forget about that vow? Does marriage even mean anything to people anymore? Her “old life” is not going to come back anytime soon, he husband is immunocompromised. That’s never going to change. Support your life partner, as you promised to do so on the day you got married. Those vows are supposed to mean something, they’re not supposed to be empty words. You’re supposed to stick together and support each other through the good and the bad, in sickness and in health as I already said.
Okay the rest of the article, which is the vast majority of it, is just promotion of this guy’s book and methods, the article is not worth reading, it’s extremely basic relationship advice such as compromising with your partner, and not to gaslight your partner about long COVID. Again, basic empathetic human behaviour.
Stick to those last few sentences and ignore the rest. The guy is doing the best he can to try to make things work. This isn’t some malicious thing. Recognise that and continue to try to make things work together.
All in all, this is a clickbait article to advertise some phycologist’s book and methods, and the wife is not as bad as the introduction makes it seem. Don’t know how such blatant promotion is allowed on NPR though, isn’t that meant to be state funded media?
I’d be wearing a fucking full face respirator complete with two huge filters sticking out if I was immuno-compromised and you asked me to sit in a small metal tube with a couple hundred other people for 13 hours. If people don’t think I’m Bane, I haven’t gone far enough.
And the thing is, even if COVID magically goes away, the guy is still immunocompromised. Illnesses like the flu and common cold can still make him seriously ill. His life has permanently changed.
I literally do.
And then I tell people, with a shit eating grin, that the respirator is more comfortable than N95s because the weight is distributed across your head and the massive filter area and outflow valve don’t trap moisture.
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Yes i put a small camera in it and wear a monitor on my head called grin-o-vision
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Look up the song Utah Phillips wrote about npr