• snooggums
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    9 months ago

    Not saying everything on my mind isn’t lying, and leaving something out or talking about something else when the social expectation is that I would give a ‘little white lie’ is not lying.

    If I did something bad and avoided admitting to it that would be lying by omission. Doesn’t come up as I admit it when something like that happens.

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        9 months ago

        Omissions can be lies, but not all omissions are lies.

        Spouse: What did you do last night and who did you hang out with?

        Spouse 2: Went to the bar, drank with Bill and Tina. Came home in a cab.

        Spouse 2 also hung out and cheated on their Spouse with Pat that night. Spouse 2 lied by omitting the fact that they hung out with Pat and cheated on their Spouse when asked. It isn’t any different than saying “No” if asked directly if they hung out with Pat and cheated on the Spouse.

        If Spouse 2 was never asked, not bringing it up wouldn’t be lying, just a terrible person who is hiding something.