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Cake day: August 17th, 2023

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  • Yeah I’m torn. I agree that the Lemmy onboarding process should be easier. But a BIG part of me also agrees with you. I hate the defeatist attitude people have -me being your average person with limited tech experience who was able to figure it out. I didn’t feel frustrated, I felt excited learning about Lemmy and its features, and the Fediverse as a whole.

    Don’t care for people who complain about their situation then do nothing about it.




  • MelonYellow@lemmy.catoRelationship Advice@lemmy.worldFffgggg
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    2 days ago

    A) Yeah bad idea to tell her it’s people you know. You can see why someone might freak out and feel uncomfortable/paranoid about that. It’s not someone random you’d never meet, like a celeb or pornstar -it’s people you know in real life.

    B) Her age checks out. Young people tend to be more insecure. However I still think point A stands

    Some people can only understand when it happens to them. So maybe if you flipped it. She tells you she’s getting off on pictures of a guy she knows. Maybe she used to work with him or still does. How would you feel?