Melonsman [he/him]

I think men are the butt of the joke here. It seems to be mocking the weird pride some men have for living like sewer rats

Thank you! Browsing on safari was literally killing me

I do this as well and for me personally it was because I was in denial about my bad childhood. Basically my parents were dangerous and unpredictable and fawning over them made them more manageable. Now my brain equates being liked to safety so I always try too hard in social settings. I’ve been working on it but pretty sure I need therapy too lol

I’m the flip flop just barely hanging on