He does know. And I totally get your perspective on the safety piece. The biggest fear is her getting pregnant. Yes she’s on BC, but still.

However it’s hard to explain, but the wife falling for him wouldn’t happen. It’s just the dialog and conversations we have that I have zero fear she will fall for him. She doesn’t like the guy as a person. She doesn’t even converse with him. It’s truly just to get off and be a fucktoy. It’s why she had a very strict arrangement. He comes. Fucks her how he wants to. She’s not gonna show that she loves it. She just wants to not think and only feel.

Now. Anything could happen. But atleast currently. We are pretty comfortable.