Spike [none/use name]

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Cake day: September 11th, 2020

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  • I don’t know the context for this, but I think with the status quo of the internet being that everyone shits on homeless people, drug addicts, etc. I can understand wanting to remove comments that are being critical of the decisions someone has made that led to them asking for help here. There is a time and place for offering advice, and most of the time people here are not looking for it nor are they even in a position to hear it, and they are definitely not going to take much in from strangers. In healthcare settings it takes hours of building rapport to broach these topics, so unless you know the user well its pretty much pointless to be critical of someone unless you want to make them feel like shit. At best you could link people to resources that could help, or invest the hours to get to know them, then start trying to give advice.

    I do think if this comm is going to be called mutual aid then there should be more than just posts requesting donations… though it can’t be as bad as the languagelearning comm not having stickied resources for learning languages