I’d want it enabled only for people who are subbed to the community in question. That solves practically all issues.

All of those, plus I don’t want any financial record of my kinks, thank you very much.

More realistic humans, less monsters, demons, etc.

Preferably 1 or some versions of 2.

Hey, I’m new here but I think keeping lemmit federated will help me smooth over the transition from reddit. The majority of all content on Reddit and Lemmy (including this very instance) is already reposted from some other sources anyway and I don’t really see a reason to treat automated reposting differently from manual.