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Cake day: September 2nd, 2023

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  • Don’t owe anyone friendship but just to play the other side, I’ve kept a few friends after most of our mutual friends dumped them, I know a few difficult people mostly who are that way because of mental illness; autism, chronic depression, alcoholism and drug addiction, etc. I also have some old friends who annoy the shit out of me often just because of their personalities. I just think it’s nice that tough people or people having a tough time in society should also experience friendship, and it makes their antisociality better vs isolation making it worse. There’s always a line but in general I think it’s virtuous to be patient with our difficult friends because nobody is perfect and heaven knows we can be difficult too sometimes. The key is having good boundaries though, you can be friends with someone and not talk to them all the time or put up with their bullshit. Even take months breaks if you need to











  • Looked a little more into it, they weren’t actually the very first eaten but were the first (and by some accounts only) to be murdered for the purpose of eating. They both refused to eat human meat before fleeing (they’d been warned their murder was being planned), but were caught up with down the trail a few days later. Shortly after they were butchered the group (a segment of the party that had been sent ahead) that did it were harboured and fed in a Miwok village (the guides having also been Miwok I think). A grizzly tale.