More votes here for “the book”, it got me through publishing my first community app quite nicely.

People are being polite and well spoken about it?

This thread is a mess.

I’m fairness, they also want to force men to look and behave a certain kind of way. It’s all about control with them.

How is any group flocking to BS? It seems like it’s impossible to get an invite lol.

Secondly, I think many of the users who have come to this platform are tired of shitty bigoted and hateful speech that they’ve seen on so many huge platforms

I think lemmy itself contributes to this as well. I know I nearly bounced off of lemmy when I signed up for lemmy.ml, and saw so many… unsavory comment threads.