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Cake day: May 3rd, 2024

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  • I prefer tofu, I haven’t found it essential to press it but maybe some varieties you need to. I cut open the edge of the pack and squeeze it a little before taking out the tofu to get some water out though. Super simple and no saw dust vibes. If you do press it it’s not very troublesome, it just takes a little extra time but not more than half an hour.

    I worked in an authentic Japanese ramen restaurant and didn’t press or even cook the tofu, I thought it was odd at first but it became my favorite way to do it because it’s so easy and has a nice texture but it depends on the type. I can’t find the brand but some have a much less pleasant flavor IMO and probably need more draining.


  • It was blown out of proportion for sure and tough to follow even at the time it was happening. Most of the deleted comments were from one user who kept making alt accounts to be incredibly insulting to people who were arguing against the changes, I’m not sure if mods figured out who it was for certain but I think it was someone who was banned here already. There was a lot of heated discussion but it doesn’t seem like a massive deal overall and seems to have blown over by now.

    Mods made c/counterpropaganda and c/gossip to theoretically replace the two tanks, but their purposes aren’t super clear to people, basically dunk posts are now posted in c/slop.



  • In addition to the racist name, a statement that recieved a lot of backlash claimed it had ‘white cishet man vibes’, there was discussion behind the scenes about it with other instance admins, supposedly “part of a broader push to reduce misogyny on hexbear and lemmy in general.” You can read all the struggle posts about it and still not understand the full reasoning. Top-down decisions to change site culture with no community input beforehand, and then conflicting reasons given for the changes.

    I followed all the posts about it and didn’t really care about the tanks themselves too much, but I don’t think I’m alone in saying I don’t trust or fully understand the decisions made.












  • I don’t recall who said it but wasn’t the name gossip picked partly because they wanted to emphasize the frivolousness of the posts that would go there? Like they were begrudgingly maintaining part of the old dunk place but wanted to shame it. I agree, in my experience it has “effeminate” and frivolous connotations and is used in media to refer to what those clique-y and rude women do behind your back.



  • What helps me is considering we are all hardly one step above wild animals. We do what is instinctual and based on our conditioning and upbringing which no one has any choice in. If a dog was raised to attack people, I wouldn’t get upset at that dog when they attack people, it’s what they have been made to do by outside influence.

    I really believe most people aren’t so selfish and reactionary as 4channers or whatever though. If everyone gives you this feeling maybe it would be helpful to spend time around different people somewhere else?

    I did grow up Buddhist though, it’s been drilled into me since early on to have kindness and compassion for all people, and similarly to Buddhism, Marxism teaches that we are products of our conditions, so I tend to hate the conditions rather than the person.