For me for a while it was the apps (okcupid, bumble, hinge, etc). Currently off the market but if I was re-entering the scene then FetLife seemed fairly appealing as well, as one should never discount the importance of sexual compatibility. I think a diverse variety of spaces gives one a better chance to find different people with different approaches and meet one or more who sync with you well. Of course one should also never discount the offline spaces like clubs and organizations or even meeting people at bars and pubs, but in those instances it can take much longer to discover who’s available.

To be fair, with the title you gave your post, that’s on you XD

I hear you about the finally bit though. Unlike other instances, conversation on this one is still working its way out of early days. Admittedly, it’s a highly visually oriented instance but, “be the change you want to see in the world” and all that. The importance of sexuality is hardly limited to its visual representations.

Sadly though I’ve actually little to contribute to this topic as sexting beyond the clever use of emojis with partners hasn’t really been a major aspect of my sexual life. The Internet has only really factored in my relationships as a way to discover partners and then things mostly shift offline pretty rapidly for me.

🎶 Let’s talk about sex, baby 🎶