yewler [she/her]

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Cake day: August 23rd, 2024

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  • Actually all of the spaces you have mentioned have “trivial” examples that fit the definition of what it means to be that type of space, but are very boring. For example, the trivial vector space is a vector space where the only thing that exists is the zero vector. Though it is significantly more obvious that such a trivial example exists for topologies, just by looking at the definition.

    The definition of a topology is the way that it is so that there is a notion of closeness at the local level, but not really at the macro level. I’m sure you’ve heard that topologists can’t tell the difference between a coffee cup and a donut. This is because a continuous deformation exists that can transform the coffee cup into the donut. So we don’t really care about distances at the larger level (distances get all sorts of fucked up through this transformation). However, it is a continuous transformation, which intuitively just means that if two points were “close” before the transformation, they are also “close” after the transformation. So we still care about distance at that level.

    I would like to throw in another possibility that I haven’t seen discussed though: vector spaces of functions. This I think solves some of the problems you run into with n-dimensional vector spaces, since you can choose whatever domain and range you want for your functions. So a specific gender could be an element of this function space, of the form f:X -> F, where X is some set and F is some field. This seems to have the generality you’re looking for without the fluidity of topologies. Note that when X is of the form {1, 2, …, n} and F is the set of reals, we get an n-dimensional vector space.








  • dysphoria

    I just want to feel like a girl. I bought a really cute hat and gloves and wore them with a sweater I got a few weeks ago and I felt adorable and I loved it. But it’s almost like the more comfortable I get with doing more and more fem things the more impatient I get, and the sadder I get that this is such a long process. And when I take the stuff off I get hit with this “oh shit yeah that’s right I have a guy body.” I don’t want to have a guy body.

    The days where I feel so happy to be trans are usually followed by evenings where I wish I was cis. Like a sugar crash but for gender feelings.

    In related news I’ve realized I could never turn my back on being trans. At the beginning of this journey one of the only things giving me the confidence to keep going was the realization that I could always just not be trans if I found it wasn’t for me. Fuuuuck that at this point it’s clear that if I ever try to be cis again it would destroy me.



  • Just thinking about the time I was first making my lemmygrad account and they asked me what my thoughts were on trans people or something, and probably what they were wanting is some 1-2 sentence “yeah trans people are cool and based” but I couldn’t stop myself from hitting them with a several paragraph long rant about how in my ideal world gender wouldn’t exist because it’s kind of a prison, and that trans people are not only hella awesome, but understanding their lived experiences and perspectives on gender is something everyone should strive for.

    Who could have known I would eventually be sitting here with a cute lil [she/her] sitting next to my username?