• yeahiknow3@lemmy.world
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    8 months ago

    Ah yes, we need special scientific evidence to figure out if playing outside with friends, fresh air and sunshine is better or worse than watching TikTok 5 hours a day.

    Please, let’s do a study on this mystery.

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      8 months ago

      Look I think even you should be able to understand that phones aren’t actually the problem here. Look around at the world around you. Where are kids supposed to go? You can’t walk anywhere. Are they supposed to just get chauffeured around by their parents until they can drive?

      Social media is bad for everyone, that’s not unique to kids. The only reasonable solution to this problem is to remove car dependency and unfuck our zoning laws. Give kids places to go and they’ll go there. They love that shit but they hate being a burden and since the modern world removed those opportunities what else do you expect them to do?

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        8 months ago

        Well sure, except that problems with social media are everywhere, even in suburban and rural areas where kids have plenty of places to go.

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        8 months ago

        I had a friend just the other day have this conversation with me about how Social Media is bad for kids, but he as a grown ass man is able to determine if what he reads and hears online is healthy and useful to his life. This same person has spent the last 13 months discussing his divorce and how a fortune teller at the RenFest told him he had a dark aura and was difficult to love, and has been basing real life decisions on this comment.

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      8 months ago

      “TV is bad for your eyes! You kids don’t go out and play anymore!”

      “Video games are making you violent! You kids don’t go out any play anymore!”

      “Phones are addictive! You kids don’t go out and play anymore!”

      I assume you’re most likely under 80, so one of those three was said about you when you were a child.

      Edit: If you are over 80, they said it about you listening to the radio.

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        7 months ago

        If you can’t disambiguate between culture-war fear-mongering and the actual prerequisites for human flourishing, you are as fucked in the head as any lead-addled boomer.

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          8 months ago

          Which one of those is an actual prerequisite for human flourishing? Radio, TV, video games or phones? And which ones do you refuse to use because they are stopping you from flourishing? Apparently you’re okay with the internet.

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      8 months ago

      How are kids supposed to go outside and play when places for kids to play have disappeared, replaced with empty parking lots and record breaking temps every year?