• Sanctus@lemmy.world
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    8 months ago

    People really handing their kids devices that have cellular service and unfettered internet access? All my kids devices have 2 layers of adblock, parental controls, and no cell service.

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      8 months ago

      Ok. Or you could, you know, not give them these. Some pretty good data coming out on why this isn’t a great idea. It’s not just luddite ranting.

      • sugar_in_your_tea@sh.itjust.works
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        8 months ago

        Yup. I let my kids (7 and 10) play video games or watch approved shows and that’s about it. They get 1 hour on Saturdays, and they can “earn” more any day by reading: 1 hour reading = 30 min “screen time.” We have a max of 2 hours/day, but they can bank time day to day.

        It works pretty well. They definitely abuse the system by going beyond their allotted time, but if I “find out,” they lose privileges for a couple days, so it seems they stay pretty honest on average without a ton of oversight.

        I don’t have any parental controls/blocking except for:

        • ad blocker - screw ads
        • passcode on Switch - mostly because of my 4yo, my older kids know the code

        Basically, I operate on trust and honesty, and I think it works okay.

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      8 months ago

      I’ll probably get my kids a dumb phone for school when they get old enough. I want them to have cell service for emergencies of any kind.

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        8 months ago

        I thought about that but I myself am broke and have gotten all of these from relatives that no longer use them. If I could go back in time, I would have abstained and ripped our N64 from my brother’s closet sooner.

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        8 months ago

        I’d love a small box with a button that literally just calls my phone, has a mic and speaker and nothing else, no screen, no software, no proprietary lock-in. just a button.