yea

I did not expect this this post of mine to attract as many people minimising SA as it did. Bit of a downer, yeah.

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    I’m gonna try and do this next time that shit happens. As noted, it makes me uncomfortable and I kinda just lose all sense about what to do in the moment. So I tend to just try and ignore the thread after I see what’s going on so to avoid the severe discomfort I feel.

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      yeah a lot of people used to talk about SV a lot just off the cuff in jokes and news and memes and i think over time ive been able to get people to realize this isnt ok and now most posts are properly tagged, though i do usually end up reporting one or two each week, particularly from newcomers and fediverse people.

      it is generally kinda wild how cis men often have no comprehension about why so many women avoid a wide swathe of internet spaces and activities