• Melvin_Ferd@lemmy.world
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        24 days ago

        Is it though?

        All lives matter yes. But I need to see more about hetero day. I can get on board

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          24 days ago

          You don’t see how hosting a non-existent counter-event to the very real pride month is an inherent rejection of said pride month?

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            23 days ago

            Depends on your locale

            I live in San Francisco. If the Castro (gayest neighborhood in the world) did a “Straight Recognition Day” I think it would be fun.

            Iowa or Kansas or something? Not so much.

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            People celebrate hetro love as a whole. The vast majority of society approves of us pairing up. Pride is about the people who don’t get celebrated when they pair up.

            You wouldn’t go to a funeral and start complaining that there are other people in world that also had meaningful lives. You let them have their day.

            So when people make these straight pride stuff it’s basically saying having 11 out of 12 months a year wasn’t enough, we need to have the last bit.

            And yes I am straight. I just understand for the roughly 2% of the human race that isn’t they should be able to have normal lives.

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            24 days ago

            Not really? It’s such a tiny thing compared to pride month that’s it’s silly to focus on it tbh

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              24 days ago

              So you think that it isn’t a dog whistle because… not enough people showed up and too many people are aware of it existing?

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                I think it’s a tiny, stupid, Itty bitty thing, and you are focusing way, way too much on it, yes.

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                  24 days ago

                  I don’t think anyone asked you for your opinion on it. I do remember you asking how it was a dog whistle. Maybe you have a bigger horse in this race than you let on.

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                    23 days ago

                    No, not really. Like I said, genuinely curious. I do not see how a tiny nothing bar offering free beer in Idaho can be a dog whistle for hatred to gather. Anyhow, thanks for the response! Have a nice day!

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      24 days ago

      I think it was designed to make profit off of making people upset.

      But more specifically, you almost have to respect it. Target the same audience that still refuses to admit that James O’Keefe stole their money and watch the money roll in.

      Right wingers love shit like this and will invent a backlash just to donate even more money to the business owner.

    • Anise (they/she)@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      23 days ago

      I have no problem with people feeling pride about their immutable characteristics. Scottish and proud? Excellent, go put on a kilt and throw one of those giant poles; looks fun! I have a problem when “pride” is used to organize people against a vulnerable minority. So sure, enjoy your super straight free beer with a bar full of other totally straight cis men and talk about… Idk sports or something. However, given the current political climate it seems to me like this is likely a way to gather people resentful of LGBT pride’s efforts to claim equal rights. So it isn’t a gathering of proud straight men, it is likely a gathering of bitter hateful men.

      LGBT pride exists to fight for equal rights and representation that cis-hetero people enjoy by default; it isn’t meant to gain an upper hand or displace cis-hetero people. Far-right extremists like to paint the movement’s goals as a way to erase white straight cis culture, but this is just reactionary propaganda to mobilize people against this minority group.