• Honytawk@lemmy.zip
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      6 months ago

      I mean, the comic is so vague you can interpret that as not being about rape.

      In which case they are joking about sex. Which is cool.

      • JackbyDev@programming.dev
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        6 months ago

        I thought it was about depression or other mental struggles before seeing the comments explicitly saying otherwise. I don’t think your comment was out of line given that you didn’t know the author was depicting rape.

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      6 months ago

      Things that are common among rape survivors as coping mechanisms:

      -Dark humor about rape
      -Fantasizing about sex that looks like rape as a way to reestablish a feeling of control

      These are not universal experiences - everyone processes differently - but they are common. Feeling shame about them is also common, or being told that they invalidate victimhood.

      I believe you’re trying to help, so I’m not mad at you. But you aren’t helping.

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          6 months ago

          Eh on one hand yeah it’s probably insensitive to joke about rape but at the same time calling insensitive jokes is just going to bring more attention to it and now everyone is focused on fighting over a insensitive joke instead of focusing on helping those in need I suppose it’s kinda like a scab the more you pick the more the wound bleeds

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      5 months ago

      I didn’t really interpret the art as rape. I could see that, but I originally saw it as some surreal horror story.