I guess it’s another way of asking, “What event in your life had to most effective impact?”

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    My last (and final) relationship.

    I was deeply in love, but the other person broke up with me for valid reasons, and then pretended to take me back so they could mentally fuck with me, and it worked.

    I’m now a depressive and a semi-hermit. Luckily for me I always liked being alone, or I’d be miserable, but the experience completely changed my personality and I don’t get close to people anymore.

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      2 months ago

      Your experience reminds me of my attitude towards friends. I have become a hermit because my trust in other people has been ruined. I don’t even desire having friends anymore.

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        I have about five friends I trust implicitly.

        I have hundreds of acquaintances I’m around for various reasons, and I like them, but I keep them all at arms length.

        I have everything I need.