• PunnyName@lemmy.world
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    1 month ago

    Don’t buy a ring for engagement unless you know for sure that they a) want an engagement ring, and b) are 100% gonna say yes.

    Marriage shouldn’t be a surprise.

    • FlihpFlorp@lemm.ee
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      1 month ago

      Me and my my girlfriend are of the mind where (once our relationship is that far) there’s gonna be a long talk about marriage, like if we’re ready, what changes are being made once that happens, a lot of discussion. We also agree once that discussion has been settled there can still be the romantic gesture of popping the question

      I just never understood how people are able to go

      “I’m putting you on the spot would you make a life changing decision that will alter both our lives or will you break my heart, go ahead infront of all these people”