• WillFord27@lemmy.world
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    1 month ago

    Yep. Just because you do something in a nonsensical, stupid way doesn’t mean you have ADHD or that is what someone with ADHD would do. People with ADHD are also “intellectual.”

    For me, this is how I’d solve 9+7:

    Day 1: Fuck it, I’ll do it tomorrow

    Day 2: Alright gotta do that problem now! Just gonna eat and take a walk to prepare my mind

    Day 3: okay for real this time

    Day 4: staring intently at problem for half an hour before getting incredibly inspired to do anything else

    Day 5: anxiety

    Day 6: paralyzed but anxiety

    Day 7: Either I actually try to do it and it takes 30 seconds or I give up entirely and flunk the class

    Not “hehe quirky look at me I’m so stupid because my brain does things differently, ur so smart I wish I was like you and not so dumb! x3”

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      1 month ago

      I wanna be charitable and say that these sort of behaviors might be commonly associated with ADHD because for us they become a necessity to exist in the world.

      While an NT person might have no problem adding 9+7 without breaking up the problem, it becomes much harder with ADHD. so ADHD people are more likely to develop them as a coping mechanism.

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        1 month ago

        For me personally, the more steps a math problem has, the less likely I am to follow through. My mind prefers cutting corners rather than breaking equations up

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          1 month ago

          For many of us it is cutting corners. Memory is hard, but I know my fives and anything less than five so really I just need two spots in ram instead of a bunch of tables on my tiny hard drive

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            1 month ago

            Yes! This is true, for example, if I’ve given something like 16 + 27, I’ll sooner make an educated (wrong) guess 3 times than stop and think about it. Not sure if that’s ADHD though!

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      1 month ago

      The problem here is that what you’re posting is accurate, realistic, and far more importantly, makes no use of italibold. Sorry, friend.