followed with ‘I wasn’t aware is so important to you. I didn’t want to insult you and if you felt so, I apologize. The word fuck is one I use very often, but I’ll try to control myself around you’

Note I didn’t insult the coworker (no fuck you or fuck off), but simply said ‘fuck’ out loud due to a job error.

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    Until it’s escalated, and then it’s definitely OPs problem. Most jobs have something about professionalism written is their handbook. The coworker will win that fight with hr every time.

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      Than they can fight that any outburst is unprofessional and they are being harassed for what other coworkers are doing.

      Fuck Shit Damn Shoot Darn

      No difference, zero, but personal offense for arbitrary reasons.

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        True in theory, but in practice, those are pretty much universally accepted curse words. I personally swear all of the time when I know the audience I’m around, and hear people swearing from across my office, so culturally it’s not a thing where I work or especially my previous manufacturing job. In places that have outside customers or patients, the expectation is generally different and varying levels of masking those outbursts is required, sometimes even saying things like "crap"is too much.

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          It’s part of my religion, are you trying to suppress my religious rights?

          Or something like that, there’s always an angle to play if someone wants to be petty or want to exert their “power” over their coworkers.