• 667@lemmy.radio
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      4 days ago

      Absolutely insane.

      Just get a tattoo of their name like the rest of us.

      • sugar_in_your_tea@sh.itjust.works
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        3 days ago

        Yeah, I don’t understand what they’re getting out of it. Here’s my pros/cons list:

        Pros:

        • trust?

        Cons:

        • if you break up, they can screw you
        • if there’s a data breach, you can get screwed
        • they accidentally leave their phone unlocked
        • send phone for repair and the tech sees the video
        • they accidentally send it to someone else, mistaking it for another

        That doesn’t seem very balanced to me… Instead of mutually assured destruction (assuming this is reciprocated), just be a good BF/GF? Why isn’t that enough?

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          2 days ago

          I think it’s honestly just a test and the person does actually believe those things but is saying it as a “joke” to see how far they can push it with their new partner. So the biggest pro would be “did I find someone equally as racist and shitty as me and if so, score”, I guess?