• RememberTheApollo@lemmy.world
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    2 years ago

    We’re still here. We’re the latchkey kids even on the internet. We show up, pop a TV dinner in the microwave and watch the boomers and everyone after us fight. We remember the “good old days” of MS DOS, C64s and get cranky at having to fix both our parent’s electronics as well as our kids stuff; because ot seems most anyone after the advent of the iphone tends to be clueless about tech and would rather take a selfie than learn how to assemble today’s dead-simple PC components.

    We’re the last group that had a shot at getting the cheese in the laid-out easy maze of graduating college with a degree and walking into a place we wanted to work and dropping off a paper resumee.

    We’ve also been at the tail end of seeing things disappear. Pensions. Affordable health care. Affordable education. Realistic retirement. Company loyalty. Etc. so we’re caught between everything the boomers had and the generations after don’t. We’re a transitional group between rotary dial phones and the modern internet.

    Nobody knows what to do with us. Not even ourselves.

    So we get forgotten.

  • JoBo@feddit.uk
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    2 years ago

    We’re quite happy munching popcorn on the sidelines. Please don’t draw attention to us.

  • tburkhol@lemmy.world
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    2 years ago

    To Millennials and Z, Gen-X is indistinguishable from Boomers - it’s all ‘old people,’ where old is anyone over 45.

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      2 years ago

      To Gen Z, millennials are boomers. I’ve been called one a lot in online games and social interactions (especially vrchat).

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      I definitely don’t see gen X as anywhere close to boomers. Especially on the Internet. Gen X is much more technically literate than their predecessors.

      Side note: writing the vague generalized names for entire generations makes me want to vomit. Although the majority of boomers definitely do seem to adhere to the “I got mine fuck you and yours” mentality that completely disregards the context that different generations live and grow up in, there were awesome boomers who were anti war, anti capitalist, and down with free love and expression. Just like on the flip side there are shitty right wing millennials and even gen Zers now out there trolling and even believing the vile shit that gets spewed onto social media.

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      2 years ago

      That’s a pretty general brush to paint millenials with, considering we are pushing 40 or a couple years in to our 40’s already.

  • Susaga@sh.itjust.works
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    2 years ago

    It’s the classic “everyone older than me is a boomer, everyone younger than me is a zoomer” mentality.

  • BURN@lemmy.world
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    Aren’t they colloquially the forgotten generation anyways?

    I think it simply comes down to older = boomer (that slang is staying on the internet well after boomers die out) and younger = millineal

  • 𞋴𝛂𝛋𝛆@lemmy.world
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    Millennials were still in grade school when the internet really took hold in a big way. Intelligent people can learn at any age. As a Millennial, I was trying to find AOL online free trial disks to chat with school friends over dial up, staying up late at night talking to my first GF, had a GeoCities page, downloaded bad music over Napster, and was on the first big wave on MySpace. This was my life in highschool, and when all these things really got started. We were the first kids to make the internet ours. Even if we didn’t all have computers at home with internet. Schools had computer labs set up almost like old internet cafes. There was a big push to get kids access to the Internet. I spent a lot of time in those labs. I think it is that democratized access combined with the culture that only exists in grade school that really defines us at this kind of cultural level. Gen X was just too early for the real mainstream public internet. Most people didn’t even have a cell phone until I was just out of highschool. I still remember when I was really young, my folks had pagers for work. Pagers would have been cutting edge tech for Gen X in grade school. Few people really adopt new tech stuff outside of a competitive social environment. You’ll never have another time in your adult life where you are exposed to so many people, like in grade school, and when you are generalists open to new things and experiences like you are at a young age.

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    Invisibility is the defining characteristic of Generation X.

    When Douglas Coupland popularized the term in his novel of the same name, that was an awful lot of the point. Generation X was the generation that just sort of fell through the cracks, lost in the shadow of the baby boomers.

    Over the years, we’ve just adapted to it, and really, at this point, it’s sort of nice to be forgotten. We can just sit on the sidelines, munching on popcorn, offering up a bit of snidely cynical commentary and reminiscing about great music, great times and great hair.

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      How many Xers do you know that didn’t have kids? I looked back at my friends circle from HS and a surprising amount were child -free, myself included.

      There’s kind of a comforting selfish nihilism at work for me. I feel like I’m going to be part of the last generation that got most of what they expected, which when compared to the average human existence at any point in history is nothing short of lavish. That said, I’m not sure I want to be elderly during the apocalypse, so I’m trying to thread the needle and die right when shit gets ugly.

      At the end of the day if this is my only bite at the apple then fuck yes, I got mine. No regrets.

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        Yes - I know lots of childless genXers, including myself.

        I think we were the first generation to see the bullshit fairly clearly, but we weren’t even close to being in a position to do anything about it.

        The earlier generations generally didn’t see it, and the boomers only saw parts of it - they were too easily distracted by their own greed and self-indulgence. Stuck in the shadows as we were, and growing up right in the middle of it - in the world after the Kennedy/King assassinations and Vietnam and Watergate and OPEC and stagflation and Iran/Contra and on and on and on - we couldn’t really miss it. But we’ve never had any real influence (other than our brief but notable time at the vanguard of music, art and fashion), so it mostly just left us sort of cynical and detached. It’s fallen to the later generations to get fired up enough to maybe do something about it.

        And yeah - my plan too has long been to mostly keep a low profile, try to share a bit of what hopefully amounts to wisdom, then slip off-stage before the inevitable shit hits the inevitable fan.

  • Muddybulldog@mylemmy.win
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    There’s plenty of us here but we’re not as noticeable. We’re old enough that we’ve learned to stop incessantly complaining about shit that doesn’t matter yet not so old that all we do is incessantly complain about shit that doesn’t matter.

    Circle of life.

    I’m an older X. Another ten years and I’ll be on my porch yelling “get off my lawn” and “not in my backyard”, carrying on the tradition laid out by my forefathers.