Sometimes I wonder if this sort of question is like an instinctual parental fitness test. Kids ask all sorts of wild questions, maybe this is a test to see if you can navigate that kind of question with tact.
Perhaps, but then you introduce the factor of the adult being a capricious sexual partner. In both cases, your goal is to navigate the question without offending their opaque and confusing sensibilities.
Sometimes I wonder if this sort of question is like an instinctual parental fitness test. Kids ask all sorts of wild questions, maybe this is a test to see if you can navigate that kind of question with tact.
That is a bad test, as you would react differently, if an adult asks or a child.
Perhaps, but then you introduce the factor of the adult being a capricious sexual partner. In both cases, your goal is to navigate the question without offending their opaque and confusing sensibilities.
“Capricious” is not a quality I look for in any social relationship, let alone somebody in sharing space with. 🤣
Likewise, I’m just hypothesizing.