Name something irrational that can instantly make you desire someone (i.e. not generic looks, personality or obviously sexual features)…
One of the things I find most attractive in a woman is her eyes, for example Alexandra Daddario, her eyes drive me absolutely wild
Competence. Extreme competence in some area, not confidence, competence. When a guy is really good at something and comfortable with it. Particularly mechanical/mathematics but also cooking.
Real sucker for unselfconscious taker-of-control guys (like even when it pisses me off it can turn me on) but I think I’m in a pretty big group there.
@RBWellsV23 I think you are in a big group there! Taking control to the extent that you want to beat your fists against his chest and tell him to stop it, almost incensed into a tantrum even though you know he is right to take charge. At the same time though, your rage is only bettered by your arousal, so if he were to take those arms by the wrists to stop the blows, kiss you, make a move, there’s a good chance you’d be absolute putty in his hands?
When my then-not-yet wife told me that she doesn’t use makeup I instantly told her that I love her.
And she still looks great today.
Women with ponytails or other braids.
Women who leave out jewelry and perfume (because they know I like that).