Name something irrational that can instantly make you desire someone (i.e. not generic looks, personality or obviously sexual features)…
A couple of things come to mind, but one of the biggest is when they aren’t afraid to geek out about their thing. I meet someone very into…idk model trains, and seeing their enthusiasm about it will definitely start to make me more interested in them. It won’t necessarily attract me on its own but it can be the thing that pushes me over the edge. In hindsight this might be why I keep hooking up with the neurospicy crowd without intending to.
Girls wearing “boy” clothes.
Boys wearing weather inappropriate basketball shorts. Doubly so with skate type shoes (Vans, Fallen, Etnies, etc). Idk maybe my ideal male style is stuck in 2007.
Just generally people cooler than me, which isnt a high bar to clear lol.
One of the things I find most attractive in a woman is her eyes, for example Alexandra Daddario, her eyes drive me absolutely wild
When my then-not-yet wife told me that she doesn’t use makeup I instantly told her that I love her.
And she still looks great today.
Competence. Extreme competence in some area, not confidence, competence. When a guy is really good at something and comfortable with it. Particularly mechanical/mathematics but also cooking.
Real sucker for unselfconscious taker-of-control guys (like even when it pisses me off it can turn me on) but I think I’m in a pretty big group there.
@RBWellsV23 I think you are in a big group there! Taking control to the extent that you want to beat your fists against his chest and tell him to stop it, almost incensed into a tantrum even though you know he is right to take charge. At the same time though, your rage is only bettered by your arousal, so if he were to take those arms by the wrists to stop the blows, kiss you, make a move, there’s a good chance you’d be absolute putty in his hands?
Women with ponytails or other braids.
Women who leave out jewelry and perfume (because they know I like that).
