UPDATE: The transphobe Ada has been defending says they misgender all trans women/NBs on Blahaj who are strangers - Blåhaj Lemmy
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Further information on the situation with the transphobia: Abigail has repeatedly misgendered me and defended her choice by saying she chooses to refer to all people of unknown gender as male. > Hey, Abigail here. I just want people to know the reason this person got banned is likely because of a deleted comment not included in that thread. OP called me ~~autistic ~~ mentally unwell for not liking politics. THAT kind of behavior is not acceptable on lemmy.blahaj.zone, so I reported the comment and let Ada handle it. Ada tried in good faith to reason with OP but it was clear they just wanted to fight. So yeah, they got banned. Ada’s a fantastic lady who’s been great at keeping the trolls at bay. > Edit: and the bit about me misgendering them is also wrong. Gender didn’t come into play until after I had left the conversation. English default on the internet is male for strangers. Source: https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/comment/2319669 [https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/comment/2319669] WRT the statement that I accused them of autism for not liking politics, further info is available here: https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/comment/2319669 [https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/comment/2319669] https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/comment/2320815 [https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/comment/2320815] https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/comment/2321026 [https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/comment/2321026]
  • SkingradGuard [he/him, comrade/them]@hexbear.netEnglish
    34·
    1 year ago

    It depends on the user. I’ve noticed many are just chill and having a laugh at the depressing existence of living under capitalism. I’m enjoying interacting here after lurking without an account.

    Just don’t threaten our hexbear cheese wheel stockpile and I won’t throw you in the castle jail! soviet-huff

    • uniqueid198x@lemmy.dbzer0.comEnglish
      14·
      1 year ago

      Depends on the user is sort of the problem tho. sometimes they have a laugh with poe-level sarcasm, which I can identify in my friends, but not with internet strangers. So its scary

      • boboblaw [he/him, they/them]@hexbear.netEnglish
        16·
        1 year ago

        Jesus, I know what you mean. I’ve been on this site from the beginning, off and on, but sometimes it’s hard to tell what’s sarcasm, or if it’s a bit. For example:

        Definitely a bit: /u/NeeraTanden

        Still can’t tell if it’s a bit: /u/LiberalSocialist